By Aarti Hudiya
Positive Psychology Coach, Manager GlobalArt, Zumba Fitness Instructor, Bangalore
Foreword by Venkat
Perfection. A word one can love and hate at the same time because we jump so easily to equating (im)perfection at a skill to (im)perfection as a human being. Aarti’s tip may seem directed to mothers but it brings good thought to reflect on for fathers or anyone who measures the difference between one’s value and worth. The world’s perfectly shaped samosa may be high in worth but is of no value if it does not taste good. Our value lies in how we make others feel and there is nothing imperfect in us as human beings. Nothing makes a child happier than a happy mother indeed. A point well driven in this wonderful writing – “Invest your energies wisely”
Find the inspiration in this advice as mothers and in the underlying thought as human beings!
Hi, I am Aarti Hudiya, Positive Psychology Coach. I’m MCA by qualification and work as a Manager in an art based Education Company. Being Fitness savvy, I’m also a certified Zumba fitness instructor.
In life, each and every person that we come across is a source of inspiration. We can learn a lot from everyone by sharing each others’ experiences that are nothing but a great learning ladder for all of us.
“Your kids don’t need a perfect mom, they just need a happy you“
Dear moms, the world needs you to be perfect but your child just needs your happiness. In the quest for perfection, mothers lose their smile. Please make sure you act happily in front of your child even though you might not be happy due to your personal/professional challenges . But please understand your child needs your smile and nothing else. Don’t give importance to anything in this world that will take the smile off your face for your children. The world be it people or situations will constantly challenge you. Even though you strive hard to impress the outside world, they will never find you perfect. So where are you wasting your mental energies? Think about it. And invest your energy in those little creatures who love you truly.
Create a happy version of yourself only for the sake of your kids. So make sure you interact with your child , play with your child and also put your child asleep with that smile on your face. A Happy mother can only raise a happy child!
By Aarti Hudiya